The pain of a woman that married an hot-tempered

The WOMAN that married an hot-tempered.
Do you know her pain?

Last night, I was seriously hungry, then I decided to get this Ghanaian food I love so much, popularly called 'Dọ̀kunnu' in Yoruba language. (I don't know what it is called in other languages). Then, I went to the usual place where it is being sold every night, (two streets from my house).

When I got there, a man with two young children, a boy of like 7years old and a girl of like 8years old, and his wife who backed an infant baby, arrived, with a motorcycle to buy the same food.

I deserved their first attention because I arrived there before the family with few seconds or like a minute, but with an esteem, I stoop myself for them to permeate and get the attention, for food... At their arrival, I noticed the man, his husband, who horned and started reacting like they have been there for a long time. He screamed at his wife to let them go while they were attending to her. She was in mayhem, she shrugged off and told the brother beside me to help her carry few loads to her thighs after she must have seated on the bike. The brother succumbed, he did and left them to his seat nearby the food stand.

Now for the husband to start the motorcycle, so they can make their move. I guessed their house is far but not very, according to their discussion I overheard.

The man made a move to kick the bike but he had a little bent-down and lost his grip to kick it. Then, he started exorbitant acts, he stopped and told his wife to alight with the children and loads. As if that was not enough, he kicked the bike, told his wife to meet him at home and left their presence with unbalanced high-speed.
Can you imagine this?

I was terribly shocked seeing this hoity-toity act from the man. The woman was immensely harassed in public and said to herself, can we easily find bike, now at this time?

I shook my head, felt her pain and was worried about what she would have been passing through in their home. I thought of the hell-on-earth the family will be, and wickedness she is enduring which may not have an end unless they seek and find God's grace.

Can you feel her pain? - The woman that marry an hot-tempered.
I wonder how the regular state of the marriage with unruly attitudes controlling its affairs. I sought within whether she can have any feeling of joy.

I perceived urgent and serious need for every youth to seek God's counsel in choosing the right partner and spending time with another, to know and understand each other well before going into marriage.

I pray you will never lack God's counsel in everything you do in Jesus name (Amen).

Look before you leap. You can have a blissful and rosy married life, if, you follow the right path. Best wishes!

© Israel Ayanwuyi, 12042018.